Rhonda had been leading the project for months. She knew every moving part, every milestone, every challenge they had overcome. So, when her upline manager casually asked a simple question in the meeting, it should’ve been routine. But it wasn’t. Her mind went blank. A team member jumped in with an accurate and helpful answer, but Rhonda couldn’t shake the
“Find a job you love, and you’ll never work a day in your life.” It’s a phrase that gets thrown around often but context matters. A senior manager once said those exact words to me during a performance appraisal. Not to inspire, but to justify a lower rating suggesting that my desire for growth was unrealistic because I didn’t “love
“Did you ever feel like the industry’s flipped on its head?” That’s what I asked my partner in crime over lunch. We were reflecting on how things used to be. When we started in finance, managers were older, seasoned, full of lived experience. We brought the qualifications and knew we had to pay our dues. Today, it’s different. Many mid-career
She was 38 when she stepped into her first real banking job. Not as relief personnel. Not as a contract employee. But as a full-time team member of a respected financial institution. While some of her colleagues were celebrating a decade in the industry, she was celebrating her first day. Her mornings began with balancing breakfast and checking in on
Last week, over lunch with an old friend, we got into a debate—should you have one phone for both work and personal life, or keep them separate? He told me about his daughter, Sarah. She’s a project manager who uses just one phone. Sounds simple, right? But the price of always being available was taking a toll on her family.
Recently, I observed my husband choosing to fish at a spot he’s very comfortable with. It’s familiar, easy to navigate, and offers consistent, if modest, results. Yet, there’s another fishing spot nearby that promises a much better catch. The catch? It comes with challenges—new equipment, new connections, and a whole new approach. This reminded me of what it means to
